Frankly madam? I don’t give a damn.
There are some things that attract me to a girl and some things I honestly couldn’t care less about. The list is shorter on this side but just as accurate and potent.
Your Ex: Unless he gives us a reason to kick his ass. We won’t admit it but… anything you mention he did differently (god forbid better) we endeavor to top with our own masculine acts of indefinite awesomeness.
Your salary: We want you to fulfill your dreams but we don’t want to know how much they paid you to do it.
Your muscles: flexibility is highly attractive. Brute strength is not. Deal with it.